My sister reminded me through a post on her blog about a family tradition that her family has started loosely based on a family tradition from our childhood which
she explains very well in another post on her blog.
In short, the entire extended family always got together on birthdays to share a meal and dessert of the birthday person's choosing. It wasn't a big party, usually few decorations, but my mom made everything from scratch (most of the time) and the entire extended family made it a point to be there for the event. If my mom would have decided to not organize and cater the event and/or the family chose not to come, it would have been a very big deal. Lots of crying and hurt feelings would have had to of been dealt with. It really was THAT important to us all.
So, since we live away from our family, we have carried this tradition on with local friends and it has become a tradition that we enjoy here. But, we miss attending birthday celebrations of those family and friends who aren't local. To compensate, I am copying my sis and starting a tradition where we have birthday dinner and dessert each month to remember those dear to us who have made it through another year. Just know that if you don't get a card or a phone call, you have been thought of, sung to and have had a candle blown out in honor of your special day.
Here are the October birthdays we remembered Saturday night:
Grandpa Jordan (10/5/1916~9/14/1996)
Aunt/Sister Cindy
Cousin/Niece Kora
Cousin/Niece Cora
Isabelle (French sister)
Cousin Suzy
Cousin Mark
Uncle Irv
Aunt Diane
Cousin Sammy
Aunt Norma
Esther (wonderful friend)
Uncle Bob
Other friends who we haven't seen in awhile: Amy V, Cathy S, Marla P and Jori E.
Please let me know if we left anyone out.
We had a lovely green chili casserole, mixed veggies, garlic bread and very yummy home made frosted brownies from a recipe handed down from my Grandpa Jordan's sister, Mabel. The kids helped make the food and we talked about each and every one of you and what you mean to us. It really is a busy month for birthdays. Hmmmmmm...... many happy New Year's parties or a blizzard/cold spell perhaps?!
Happy Birthday all around and much love to you all!